Cohabitation during the COVID-19 pandemic: the experience of young adult couples

Authors

  • Giovania Mitie Maesima Universidade Federal do Rio Grande do Sul, Faculdade de Psicologia, Departamento de Psicologia do Desenvolvimento e da Personalidade, Porto Alegre, RS, Brasil https://orcid.org/0000-0003-4347-3601
  • Angélica Paula Neumann Universidade Regional Integrada do Alto Uruguai e das Missões, Faculdade de Psicologia, Departamento de Ciências Humanas, Erechim, RS, Brasil https://orcid.org/0000-0001-5888-0360
  • Fabrício de Andrade Rocha Universidade Federal do Rio Grande do Sul, Faculdade de Psicologia, Departamento de Psicologia do Desenvolvimento e da Personalidade, Porto Alegre, RS, Brasil https://orcid.org/0000-0002-0439-1016
  • Adriana Wagner Universidade Federal do Rio Grande do Sul, Faculdade de Psicologia, Departamento de Psicologia do Desenvolvimento e da Personalidade, Porto Alegre, RS, Brasil https://orcid.org/0000-0002-0629-2310

DOI:

https://doi.org/10.1590/0103-6564e220047

Keywords:

COVID-19, social distancing, marital relations, couple dynamics

Abstract

This qualitative study investigated the cohabitation experience of eight young adult couples during in the pandemic and its repercussions on marital life. Semi structured interviews were conducted, six in-person and two online, with childfree heterosexual couples living together for less than three years. The reflexive thematic analysis generated three themes: pandemic-related challenges and difficulties, couple bonding, gains and learnings. Increased levels of stress, insecurity and anxiety, a sense of of overload and deprivation due to social distancing measures, difficulties in delimiting individual spaces within the home and an increase in marital conflicts were the main challenges reported. Conversely, the ability to collaboratively cope with these challenges resulted in more intimacy and strengthened the marital bond, generating greater couple commitment. These findings illustrate how pandemics can impact relationships during the beginning of cohabitation.

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2024-04-05

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Cohabitation during the COVID-19 pandemic: the experience of young adult couples. (2024). Psicologia USP, 35, e220047. https://doi.org/10.1590/0103-6564e220047